All Because of a Phone

Dear Auntie Abena,

I’ve been in a relationship with a certain girl for a year now and I must say that I’ve been through stress in the relationship. She started showing a weird attitude within the first four months of our relationship which she later on confessed that she was testing me.

Fortunately I tolerated her despite whatever she did because I really love her. I even apologise to her when she’s at fault sometimes, we’ve broken up several times and she has blocked me unaccountable times ever since we started dating.

It all happened when I had a deal with a friend of mine which was worth millions of cedis. During that time I was very optimistic that our deal will yield great results so I promised to buy her a new phone because her phone was giving her problems.

Unfortunately the deal went bad and the plans and everything I had for her couldn’t come on. I even became down hearted at that time. I barely visited her because of the pandemic but her attitude on phone and during text has changed ever since I explained things to her. She always says that she doesn’t trust me and that I’m not a man of my word to the point of breaking up with up me again.

She just doesn’t want to understand the situation I am in right now. Before her phone got spoilt, she neither picked up my calls nor replied my texts. The last time we met was the first time she had sex and I don’t want it to be like I’ve taken advantage of her.

The truth is, I truly love her despite the stress she puts me through and she was showing me attitude before her phone got totally spoilt. Please Auntie Abena help me out🙏🙏🙏

Written by Abena Magis


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  1. Continue to say u love her u love her so cant u see she is jxt being unfair becareful u dnt die before ur age
    If she breaks up with u move on

  2. Asɛm yi bi ni oohhh 😂😂
    Broda man….the sign are clear…. flee for your life massa. Wo deɛ tena hɔ na yɛ ‘but i love her’…. dis attitude wud be x3 if u unfortunately get married to her. Shine your eyes berrma!!!

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