DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I kind of feel disappointed in my husband.
9 months ago, I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. She’s very fair and has curly hair.
2 weeks after I gave birth, my mother inlaw visited, took one look at my baby and just concluded the baby wasn’t for her son just because she bears no resemblance to either me or my husband (we are both dark skinned).
Hmm, my mother-inlaw refused to touch my baby. I even overheard her telling her son to tell me to look for the father of my daughter. She left and reported me to her daughters (my sisters inlaw) and they called to insult me, accusing me of being a prostitute which I ignored.
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Auntie Abena, I dated my husband for 2 years and I became pregnant a few months before we got married. I’ve never cheated on him which he knows. His friends saw my baby and advised him to go for a DNA test to which he said no. They even teased him with it. My husband has been transferred so we are living in separate places. I was cleaning our room recently when I came across the results of a DNA paternity testing inside his pillow which shows 99.98% my baby is his.
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The test was done 3 months ago and I knew nothing about. I feel very disappointed about this. My question is can you have a baby who will bear no resemblance to anybody in the family?
Also, since he has had this result for 3 months why hasn’t he spoken to his mum about it? Because even last month his sister visited and called my daughter a bastard. I feel very hurt at his behavior and need answers on the best way to go about it.