He Doesn’t Want to Wait


Please I need advice on this. I have been with a guy for four years. He wants to marry me but my dad says I have to finish my National service and get a job to do before getting married. So my boyfriend should wait for me to get a job to do first before we can marry.

I have done everything possible for my dad to change his mind but he is not changing it. Now, the guy too says he is fed up. He can’t wait any longer. I have pleaded with him several times to wait for me but he says I’m wasting his time. That he wants to move on so I should also move on.

I really love this guy. I have been crying all day. He is very good and responsible. I’m really heart broken. I’m scared I won’t get a good guy again. He is the first guy I have ever dated. Please, I need your advice on what to do.

Written by Abena Magis


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  1. This is a sad one coming from your dad. I agree with him because he doesn’t want you to be dependent in your marriage which at times create problems. However, there is no guarantee that you will immediately get a job after your service. Should that happen, do you think your guy can still wait for you? I suggest you confide in some family members to see your dad on your behalf to get him change his mind. In the same vein, your guy should be willing to convince your dad that he will do his best to make you happy. Regards

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