He Raped Me but Ignores Me


I’m a lady of 29 years. I met this guy in September at a friend’s wedding. He spoke to me and offered to give me a ride home after the program.

That day when he took me to my house he had his way with me. That is he had sex with me without my consent so we started dating from there. My problem is that when he is not around we hardly talk on phone.

He works in a different town from where I stay. Whenever he is at his place of work we hardly talk. Sometimes for about 2 weeks, we wouldn’t hear from each other. And it’s not as if I don’t call him. When I call, he doesn’t answer and neither does he return my calls too but when he comes to where I am, he is always busy with his phone.

This behavior of his is really making me not believe him. I have asked him severally the reason why he is like that but he doesn’t give me any tangible answer. I’m wondering if he really loves me.

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Written by Abena Magis


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