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He Wants Me to Do Everything For Him

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

I met this national service personnel on your page and we started dating for almost two months now. Before I met him he used to buy food from the road side which I felt wasn’t good. I convinced him to buy a cylinder so that I will be helping him cook since he can’t do it himself.

But there is a problem, whenever I cook for him and go back home, the dishes with the pot and everything will be there unwashed until I come and do the washing. I helped him wash his clothes once and now anytime his things are dirty, he will call.me to come over and wash for him.


Just recently I had a boil on my finger and I couldn’t wash for him so till now the dirty things are still waiting for me. I am the only girl in the house and my siblings leave everything for me to do. I don’t complain because I have a child at a tender age.

I’m always tired but my guy still wants me to do everything for him including sweeping his own room. I’m tired and want to tell him but I am scared he will be angry with me. Please how do I go about it?

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Written by Abena Magis

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  1. Sit down with him and explain to him about the things you go through each and every day. A man who loves you will understand and support you.

  2. My dear, you aren’t married yet and therefore you owe him no duties or responsibilities. All you are doing now are wife duties so try and sit him down and explain to him that you are doing this out of love so he should take advantage of your helping him to over work you. I understand you’re thinking of your child as well, but please don’t let men take advantage of you because you have a child. If he truly loves you he’d understand, if not advice yourself.

  3. I think it is absolutely wrong to continue this relationship. Take note that he won’t help you at all when you eventually get married. You are not a maid but a helper when you get married. These are very early signs that this guy is absolutely lazy and not serious. Considering the fact that he can’t even wash his plates is a no no. Don’t allow him use and dump u eventually. Please wise up before you regret this move.

  4. The comments so far are good advice you cannot take for granted. Sister, you are not married to him, take note. You are not oblige to do these things for him. We only do them out of love.

    Infact Big Jeff, as said it all.

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