DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I met this national service personnel on your page and we started dating for almost two months now. Before I met him he used to buy food from the road side which I felt wasn’t good. I convinced him to buy a cylinder so that I will be helping him cook since he can’t do it himself.
But there is a problem, whenever I cook for him and go back home, the dishes with the pot and everything will be there unwashed until I come and do the washing. I helped him wash his clothes once and now anytime his things are dirty, he will call.me to come over and wash for him.
Just recently I had a boil on my finger and I couldn’t wash for him so till now the dirty things are still waiting for me. I am the only girl in the house and my siblings leave everything for me to do. I don’t complain because I have a child at a tender age.
I’m always tired but my guy still wants me to do everything for him including sweeping his own room. I’m tired and want to tell him but I am scared he will be angry with me. Please how do I go about it?