How Transparent Should I Be?


Please I would like you and your fans to help me with this. Please o my boyfriend is complaining bitterly on why I am not transparent anymore with my salary and how I spend it (meanwhile I don’t ask him for money o).

You know, this guy was good to me from the onset of this relationship that he even searched for job for me. I in turn gave him all my love and was very open to him especially with my money so we spent it together.

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Later on, I realised he had a lot of skeletons in his cupboard which I found out for myself. I came down to him to explain things to me so I know what to do and my stand as well. Yet he kept telling me “at the right time, I’ll tell you.” Besides I don’t know how he spends his money as well or how it gets finished.

Auntie Abena, I also decided to keep my mouth shut concerning my money and he is so mad. What do I do? Should I be open up and start spending it with him again?

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Written by Abena Magis


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  1. My Dear please be very careful. You being in a relationship doesn’t warrant you telling him all that you have. You both are not married yet. hmmmm if he has no ulterior motive he will not be pestering you on this matter. Be very vigilant. Do not spend your money with him too, it is not your duty. If you want to give him some money or buy him gifts from time to time, that depends on you. But to spend your money with him is a no no. Please invest it for your future.

  2. I made a mistake and it cost me 3000 cedis just like that! Some people ankasa, they are just on the hunt for someone with money, make a quick buck and boot when they have what they want. To be told, You are manipulating me because of your help? Is something I never wanna get told again! Some people are ungrateful.
    He helped you get a job, you found secrets (skeletons in his closet) why not step out? Why the maltreatment?

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