DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I’m a lady in my mid 20s and have not been in any committed relationship before. I meet guys but there’s always something off about them. Even though I have my preferences, I’m not picky.
My friends and sisters think I push guys away from me but they (especially my sisters) always have something wrong to say about almost all the guys I meet. I’m a very nice person and I’m also very beautiful so it’s hard for me to understand why I don’t attract quality men.
Some will look at me with admiration but will never get close. I’m also a God fearing person who takes my Christian faith very seriously. A co-worker once told me guys are now more attracted to “bad girls” and not the all modest ones. How true is this? And to be honest, I don’t behave or dress so “modestly.”
I wasn’t bothered about my situation at first but I’m a bit worried and feel pressured now since all my friends think I’m pushing guys away but I know what I’m facing and I’d love to be in a relationship and be committed. Please I need your advice and your team’s as well.