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I Don’t Love Him

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

I am a silent reader and I have been contemplating whether my story is worth sharing but I am in need of an advice. I am in my late 20’s and currently single.

There’s a very nice, handsome gentleman who has been chasing me for almost 3 years now but for some reasons that are not valid, I can’t seem to love him. I feel the reasons I have made up are just an excuse to convince myself on why I don’t love him or why I shouldn’t date him.

He loves me more than any guy has ever loved me, he is still here hoping and waiting I will accept him someday. This guy doesn’t only want us to date but he wants us to have a future together. He is supportive, this is someone I know will cry with me when he sees me crying, someone who will cross the ocean just to put a smile on my face. He is everything a lady should want in a guy even though he is a little boring and timid.

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My problem is I don’t want to be selfish but I don’t want to let him go due to the fear of not finding a good guy like him. Another problem is I can decide to date him but I will have to put in lots of work to make it work since there’s no love from my end. I am very confused. 🤦🏽‍♀️

My question here; is it okay to date someone you don’t love with the hope that you will love him someday or should I let a good man who loves me genuinely go?

NB: I have told him times without numbers that I am not interested but he still insists on being here with the hope that I will accept him someday. I will be reading comments from your loyal fans.

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Written by Abena Magis

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