DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
God bless you for the good work you are doing. I am a lady of 26 years and married for two years without a child yet. Though doctors said we are medically ok.
We dated for 2 years before marriage but I don’t love my husband again. I started falling out of love with him from the beginning of this year and I’ve tried everything to make me love him again but it’s not working.
I tried getting pregnant to see if the child will bring the love back but hmmm nothing. My husband is handsome, hard working and he loves and adores me but hmmmm I don’t know what is happening to me.
I earn my own money and can survive without him but I don’t want to hurt him. I’ve never cheated on him even when we were dating and I don’t even have male friends but I’m just dying inside slowly.
We have some investments together too so does that mean I have to leave everything? At times I pray to even catch him cheating so that I’ll leave but it’s not happening or I don’t have evidence. His touches and lovemaking piss me off. At times I fake moaning during love making but I actually cry inwardly.
He is 30 and I can’t see him hurt. It will break him but what do I do? It’s making me lose weight and concentration at work. Please I need advice. Thank you.