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I Don’t Love My Husband Anymore

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

God bless you for the good work you are doing. I am a lady of 26 years and married for two years without a child yet. Though doctors said we are medically ok.

We dated for 2 years before marriage but I don’t love my husband again. I started falling out of love with him from the beginning of this year and I’ve tried everything to make me love him again but it’s not working.

I tried getting pregnant to see if the child will bring the love back but hmmm nothing. My husband is handsome, hard working and he loves and adores me but hmmmm I don’t know what is happening to me.

I earn my own money and can survive without him but I don’t want to hurt him. I’ve never cheated on him even when we were dating and I don’t even have male friends but I’m just dying inside slowly.

We have some investments together too so does that mean I have to leave everything? At times I pray to even catch him cheating so that I’ll leave but it’s not happening or I don’t have evidence. His touches and lovemaking piss me off. At times I fake moaning during love making but I actually cry inwardly.

He is 30 and I can’t see him hurt. It will break him but what do I do? It’s making me lose weight and concentration at work. Please I need advice. Thank you.

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Written by Abena Magis

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  1. Simple diagnosis.
    A man loves a woman and commits to her. He may have been led on by this lady that “You’re the one I want and see myself being with”. He may have done well trying to be good to her and somehow he didn’t look deeper for 2yrs while dating. He simply just trusted.
    What this guy didn’t realize was she was just an opportunist and wanted the marriage title and believed love is really just a feeling and not a commitment. She wasn’t really in for the commitment to be his helper but was in it for the Mrs status to flaunt and the security and levels she’d boast about. Now her money is up. The dragon has awoken and she thinks she married him for the feelings she had. A man pays a bride price for this.
    Dear lady, please leave him in peace and let God’s blessings flow into his life. You’re not so much a blessing as you are a blessing stopper. He needs a release from this attachment. He needs a woman who will honor him and crown him as a King being his helper and queen.

  2. Marriage is not about feelings. By now you should know that. It’s a commitment so whatever the case it’s for better or for worse unless you didn’t say those vows. I can only say maybe you didn’t love him in the first place that’s why you’re in this dilemma.

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