DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I have a little problem which I need advice and counseling about. I’m a married man with one kid as my wife delivered just this month.
The issue is, there is a lady colleague at my work place whom I have developed a very strong love for her in such a way that I can’t live a day without talking to her. She used to cook for me in the absence of my wife. My wife was aware of this and didn’t have any issue with it. I haven’t proposed to her. I know very well that she will turn me down because of the kind of relationship between her and my wife. She is like a sister to her and moreover she wants a guy for a relationship leading to marriage.
I don’t think she will accept my proposal but I want to tell her. Should I make my feelings known to her knowing she’ll turn me down? I want it off my chest. Please I need advice and not insults because any good advice will relieve me from this trauma.