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I’m a Virgin but He Wants a Threesome

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

I read a story about the young lady whose husband doesn’t wanna have sex with her. Hhmm auntie Abena, mine is very similar but the difference is he wants a threesome.

I met this guy online last year. I was 19 too. We started dating but all what he cares about is sex. He said he wanted to have sex with me on our first meeting or date. I said no because I don’t really know him. I just wanted us to meet first, talk to each other and get to know ourselves first. He didn’t want that but I let it slide. I was still with him though but was cautious sake of what he said.

All that he cared about was my virginity. One day he said something that made me think twice.

He asked if I’m still a virgin. I said yes. Then was like he wants to buy me sex toys. I was shocked. Sex toys for what? He said he wanted me to use them please since he’s not around with me.

What even made me more shocked was when he said, the day I visit him he would let his female friend join us for a threesome! That he will let the girl lick me saa till I can’t do anything again whiles he will be watching me.

I was shocked and disgusted about what he said. When I told him I can’t do that because I’m not a lesbian, come and see this guy laughing at me. He laughed and said I don’t have any sexual fantasies. That the girl is not a lesbian. She has a guy but since she’s his friend, if he tells her I don’t have any sexual fantasy, she’ll help me to feel sexually active 🤦🏽‍♀️ I knew immediately that something is off with this guy

Auntie Abena, this hasn’t happened once or twice. He always wants to buy sex toys and gets angry when I say no. The usual complaint is I always reject his gifts but these aren’t the type of gifts I want. That’s what he’s refusing to accept.

He still wanted us to meet for the threesome but because I wasn’t I wasn’t giving him the go ahead, he lost the interest. I quit the relationship and moved on.

Because it happened to me, I’ll say such things are very real. As a lady you have to be smart. Don’t accept to do anything a guy tells you. I might be young but it doesn’t mean I don’t know what’s wrong.

Why would I visit a guy for a threesome where he’ll even let a girl lick me? Then he will get me sex toys as well too.

He started chatting with me recently and check out the chat.


Oh and he was on my neck to introduce him to my family members so he can marry me. I didn’t believe him because I know guys like him know how to really lie too.


So all I want to say is, we ladies have to be careful and make sure we know the person we are getting into relationship with. We shouldn’t rush to meet and have sex. We might regret later.

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Written by Abena Magis

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