DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Thanks for your hardwork. Please I want to ask a question.
Is it your responsibility or is it by force to wash for your boyfriend? He wanted me to go and wash for him. I jokingly told him we aren’t married so I can’t wash for him.
He is now mad at me, doesn’t pick my calls and has changed towards me. When I confronted him, he told me he is not married to me so it’s not his responsibility to also call m. That it’s his credits and time he is going to waste so it isn’t by force. Hmmm.
I have apologised since I love him. All he said was he is ok but he still hasn’t changed that attitude towards me.
NB: I’ve never asked him for money or anything before. Neither has he ever given me something or help financially. I always prefer to be an independent woman. We are just some few months into the relationship and there hasn’t been any sexual activity between us.