DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
My baby mama and I met back 2013 .I really loved her but she betrayed my love for her by sleeping with a Teaching Asistant guy in the University in her first year. I trusted her so much that I didn’t have a problem with she having the guy as a friend since she told me he was assisting her academically.
I found out about their affair when she visited me from school. I read a chat between them about the love making they had a day before she came to me. I was so much in love and heart broken that I couldn’t see her being with another guy.
I convinced her to still stay with me which she did but finally getting rid of him. This is after I showed her a chat between the guy and I. He boasted to me that he can have sex with her anytime he wants.
My problem now is that, anytime I remember what the guy told me concerning the number of times they had sex and what he made her do to him really breaks my heart. It makes her disgust me.
We have a child together and though she keeps bothering me with marriage, I honestly can’t see myself getting married to a woman who could cheat on me in that manner. I want your fans to advise me on what to do.
NB: I didn’t convince her to stay to pay her back.