My Friend’s Wife


I really need your help. I’ve been having a little issue for the past 3 days now. It’s all about my friend’s wife.

I don’t know how she got my contact. She’s been calling me and asking for a loan but, she wants me to keep it a secret. According to her, if my friend finds out she’s been calling me secretly talk less of asking for a loan, they’ll have issues.

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She called last night crying that she needs the money for something urgent. I do know my friend is having financial issues lately but won’t accept any help because he’s always proud and usually figures things out by himself.

Now I’m also confused and don’t know what to do. Should I give her the money or talk to my friend first about it? I’m worried I might create problems for her if I tell him too. Please help me.

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Written by Abena Magis


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