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My Girlfriend’s Low Libido

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

Good day. Please I need a little advice either from your personal view or from our dear mano fans. I’m sorry for this long essay. About the man complaining about his wife’s loss of libido after childbirth, I’m facing the same thing.

My girlfriend of 1 year and counting has suddenly lost her libido too. She hasn’t given birth before and is quite young to be experiencing this. In the early stages of our relationship, she was this wild lady I loved. Our sex life was good and going well until she started complaining of not having interest in sex, she doesn’t like romance either.

I’ve tried to talk about it with her to see how best I can help her out but she gets angry and doesn’t want to talk about it at all. I do everything possible to please her, I really love her and planning for us to get married later next year. I do my best to take care of her needs and I’m trying my best to be a good guy any lady can dream of

I attract a lot of ladies but I don’t let that get into my head to want to treat her bad by cheating on her or leaving her. I really want to help becauseI don’t want sex to be the reason why we’ll losethis beautiful relationship we have going on.

It’s really worrying me because I don’t want this issue to become permanent as we’re considering marriage. I don’t know what to do anymore because she doesn’t open up to me about it. It’s always anger on her part when I raise the topic. I’m young, energetic and I love to explore my sexual abilities. I’ve read a lot of marital issues caused by lack of sex so I don’t want to experience such emotional trauma …

It’s not always about the sex but even to have a special moment with her is a problem. I get busy a lot but I really try to make time for her even when I’m away. Now I just don’t know what to do now. Please advice me.
Am I overreacting or my concerns are legitimate?
Has she lost love for me or I don’t attract her anymore?
if she could really open up to me, I’d know what to do cos I love her so much. Please help me na mee blɛ paaaa

Written by Abena Magis

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