Abena Magis
DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Good morning Aunty Abena. Please I want you and your able Manofans to help me with this issue.
My husband and I have been married for 6 years now. He is very good at heart and takes good care of me and my 2 kids. He is a Security personnel.
My problem now is the way he always wants me to be on top of him thus Cowgirl Position whenever we are having sex. If I even complain of being tired, he won’t mind me. I will just have to be on top riding him till he CUMS. He will even want me to ride him with full speed and not stop.
It’s been 4 good months since he started this act of his. At 1st he used to give me good sex with him doing it with a lot of sex position he can think of but for the past 4 months it nuts for me.
I’m really tired of it. I want to know from your noble men if that gives them much more pleasure or is it a kind of punishment?
And the women too have they been experiencing this or have some experienced this before?
I’m sick and tired of being on top all the time. I don’t wanna lose him to another lady because of this issue too. I am really confused.
NB: I have complained to him asking if that was what he really enjoyed or it some kind of punishment? and he seems offended, saying that is it the first time a lady is being on top of her man? Or I haven’t heard of ladies being on top of their men before?
Adding that then he will hv to stop having sex with me if I complain.
It normal for a woman to be on top but it can’t be everyday thing my dear. So please sit him down and talk to him
Women always complain when a man is not performing in bed but when you were giving the opportunity to be the man too another problem… sorry oo woman, gather strength and continue with your cowgirl duties until he returns to take his position if not you’ll loose him to another woman who is ready to perform that duty