DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Good day to you and your fans. I’m 29 years and my husband is 34 years. We dated for 2 years and got married and it’s been 2 years now.
I’m a teacher and teach in Kumasi while my husband works in a private company in Accra. Ever since we got married I come to Accra during vacation and return to Kumasi when school reopens.
My problem is my husband is very dirty in all aspects. I always have to fight with him before he brushes his teeth and if he won’t go to work, he can stay in the room without bathing the whole day. I find it very difficult to get into intimacy with him.
Sometimes I deny him sex because of how he carries himself and sometimes too when having sex, I have to imagine having sex with my ex before I’m okay. I thought I knew his character till I came to stay with him.
My husband is very handsome that if you see him outside, you may like him but inside him it’s a whole lot. Sometimes I wish I didn’t marry him. Please I need help on this one because I’ve complained to him on several occasions. He will give excuses of not going anywhere and that he’s at home, a whole lot.