DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
My husband asked me to give part of my salary to him so we can save together. I told him I wanted a joint account but he said no. We’re both not living together. You can say we’re separated and because of this money issue, he accused me of helping my pastor instead of him because I pay tithe and seed offering.
He also accused me of respecting my pastor more than him. My pastor doesn’t even call us or anything. I told him that we should start building a house but he said no he won’t. He is saving his so I should do the same.
There’s such a distance between us that I asked him what I should do because I didn’t know if this was what we can call marriage or what. He told me he can’t continue with the marriage so I should give him up to a month to come and divorce me because I don’t help him with money issue.
Our two kids were staying with me whiles he was. It’s been three months since he told me about the divorce. I have forgotten about him because no call, no visit nothing. Now the mother is the one calling and asking me to let my son go for a visit but I’m not ready to allow the boy. My interest in the marriage is gone and want to leave with my kids and see what God will do. Please fams what should I do? Should I allow the boy to go or please help.Thank you.