My Husband is Running Away From Sex


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It’s almost every lady’s dream to get married, have children, enjoy the journey, and live happily ever after but it doesn’t always happen like that. Hmm

My husband and I got married in December last year. Before we got married everything was cool and our sex life was great. A year down the line, he’s running away from sex.

I remember during our courtship period, my mum told me she had an ill feeling concerning my relationship with my husband and that some pastors had confirmed it to her. I had to repeatedly tell her what she’s thinking is wrong and that I hadn’t seen anything bad about him since I was the one involved with him.

My husband also called her to calm her down. She agreed and let things be. I loved him so much. He was caring, responsible, jovial and our sex life was great.

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I’m somebody who doesn’t really take things to heart and I love finding solutions to my problems instead of waiting on people. Making friends is something I hardly do so I just have a handful of them. We met in January 2018 and I found out I was pregnant in September 2019 so we sealed the deal in December.

Our sex life

He stopped touching me when I was six months pregnant. His reason being he was afraid he might hurt I and the baby. I tried to talk him out of it but it yielded nothing so I just had to back off. I gave birth in May and he gave himself a 3-month dormancy period. I had an SVD but I was ok after 6 weeks.

From January 2020 to November 2020, we have had sex like 5 times p3 o. Now he’s become a two minutes man. He tells me he doesn’t feel for sex at all and that his sex drive has really gone down, no intimacy (we’ve had sex like 3 times after I put to bed). I try to seduce him but he turns me away. I’m getting sick and tired of this already.

I’ve resorted to watching porn before I go to bed. It’s not a good practice but I dunno what else to do. Lately, I feel so good when I get compliments from men because I don’t get it from my husband. He doesn’t say things to make me feel good about myself. The annoying thing is he takes everything cool and normal.

Am I overreacting or it’s normal? My marriage is not even up to a year. How can I live the rest of my years without enough sex? ????????????????

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Written by Abena Magis

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