My Woman Has Blocked Me


I met this girl through my ex last year. We kept in touch for some months and got to know each other till she got to the country finally. She is a single mother and the twins are so lovely and they really like me. December last year, I introduced her to my mom and siblings and they all liked her.

We decided to spend some quality time together so we opted to go to Akosombo for our trip. We came back and started planning our wedding and Traditional Marriage. Because we were both born in the same month, we set a perfect date in our month.

After a few days she called and told me there was no chemistry between us and that we should break up. That was the saddest day of my life. She blocked me and left the country without telling me anything. When I contacted her friend to help me, she said she can’t break up her friendship with my woman because of me. This friend happens to be my ex who introduced me to the lady.

She too has blocked me because I got to know she was chatting with her secretly without my notice. The point is I still LOVE my ex’s friend so much and don’t know what to do anymore. I need advice. Thanks.

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Written by Abena Magis

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