DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I want to share my story because I need advice from your cherished followers. My girlfriend dumped me but she now wants me back.
I dated a lady for 5 years. My intention was to marry her right after she graduates from university next year. Everything was going on smoothly in the relationship till I visited her on campus 10 months ago. I realized some changes in her character. She spent lots of time chatting with a male ‘friend’ without acknowledging my presence in her midst.
I didn’t take offence because they had been friends for over 2 years. My girlfriend, her brothers and the guy himself had assured me that he was just a friend so I need not to worry. After I left, she called and told me she wanted a conference call with me and her mom.
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Could you believe that this girl told me she’s very sorry paa? That she needs to end my relationship with her because she has fallen in love with her friend. This same guy everybody around her assured me wasn’t her anything except friends. Her mom even added to her story and apologized to me for wasting my time.
I never knew until that day that it was this guy who had been taking care of her siblings in school. He sometimes gave money to her mom. I have also been doing same but he spends more than I do. It was very painful for me but I accepted to back off and forget about her.
Auntie Abena, 2 months ago, I got a text from her. She was begging me that she’s sorry she dumped me. She wants us to get back together. Her reason being that, the guy told her via a phone call that he never loved her in a romantic way. He only saw her as his sister. That all the money he spent on her and her siblings was just out of pity for her poor background
Auntie Abena, since then, she’s been bombarding me with calls. Her mother and brothers keep calling pleading with me to take her back. What should I do because I still love her? I need your advice please.