DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Good evening. I have come to your inbox this evening because I have no one to talk to. I’m a silent follower of your page even though I comment sometimes.
Auntie Abena, I’m crying as I type right now. I have made a mistake of my life and I fear it will cost my life as I’ve been infected with HIV.
I have been single for the past few years after my last relationship which couldn’t work out. I even opted for the Unsingle Me service you rolled out. I had a couple of girls in my dm but most of them had their own purpose which was different from mine.
After couple of months, I saw my old school mate on Facebook. We decided to vibe and one thing led to the other so we started dating. I had wanted her to be the last girl I was going to date and marry.
Fast forward, we decided to meet at my grandma’s funeral. I spent 6 days at where the funeral was. Fortunately she also stays around that area so we saw each other very often. During last day there, I was very tired because we had a lot of people coming to the funeral and I didn’t even get anywhere to sleep. For the 5 days I hadn’t slept more than 4 hours.
I decided to get a guest house and that was when she decided to join me. For no reason I told her “no sex” which she agreed. We slept the whole night without sex but when she was going to take her bath the next morning, she told me to undress her. One thing led to another and before we realized we had sex.
Auntie Abena as I’m typing now I’m HIV positive. We had sex once and it was just a round. I am supposed to travel outside the country to Spain) early next year. Here I am.
I just want to ask this questions:
- Can I still travel to Spain with my condition?
- Can I have friends who have gone through this?
- Can I get someone to pray for me to solve this?
When I confronted her, she said she didn’t know she was positive. She said she fell sick but when she went to the Hospital she was diagnosed of asthma. They didn’t tell her she was HIV positive. Now look at me Auntie Abena.
I feel like committing suicide. See how my wanting a relationship has cost me? Now my survival on earth has to depend on drugs. Not just any drugs, drugs with serious side effects.