DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Good evening. I want you to help me use your platform to help me regain my confidence to love again.
In 2018, I met and fell in love with a lady called Sherifa. She was in SHS 2 and I was then in level 200 at UEW. I loved her so much. Her family left Kumasi to settle down in the North. She didn’t follow them but she also didn’t have a place to stay so I spoke with her sister to let her stay with me till finishes her WASSCE exam.
After she completed, I wrote Application letters around and lucky for her she had got job at Cheers Bar & when she began working there noor her behavior changed drastically. She lived under my care and shelter for 11months working. I never asked her how much she was taking as salary.
The most painful thing she did to me was that, she paid GHS2,500 to rent a room furnished it with a gas burner, cylinder, cooking utensils, bed, ashfoam, LCD TV, and other necessary things she needs of which I wasn’t aware of.
After the mid-sem, I came home one day to meet her packing out and I asked her why
Her answer was, “I don’t love you. I was only living with you because of the difficulties I was facing. Now I have my personal room so am leaving.”
I thought it was a prank and didn’t take her serious. I’d been invited for a former roommate’s wedding at Wesco so I left. When I came back around 7-8pm she was far gone.
This happened last year June. I am broken hearted and feel she used me to get whatever she wanted and after, dumped me.
I feel like cursing her and something is also telling me to let it go.
Please I need your friends advise.