DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Greetings sister, please hide my identity. Please I need your candid advice. I’m in a relationship with this lady, the first time I proposed to this lady she made me aware that there is no man in her life till I found out that she is going out with one guy so I asked her and she told me yes they were dating but had stopped.
We then continued the relationship, fast forward anytime I visit this lady I normally meet the guy with her. If I complain she would call me names; asking me that why should I question her and that I’m abusing her. In fact I’m really worried about this behavior of hers.
It isn’t only that, I found out again that there was this guy too who she said is an ex, anytime I go to her either I meet the first guy I found out about or this guy. Should I complain she would get mad at me telling me she can’t sack them anytime they come to her, but I don’t like that.
Please I want to find out, is it ok for the exes to still always be around my lady like that? When I talk too she will tell me she has nothing doing with them. Please should I still be with this lady or she is just playing games with me?
Thank you very much.
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