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The Long Distance is Killing Me

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

God bless you and all the mano fans. I have been on your platform for a while now. I’m a married woman and I have been in a distance relationship for some years now.

My problem is that my husband and I dated for 3 years before we got married without having sex. We aren’t living together, he lives in Europe and I also live in the States so we all came back home to thanks for our wedding.

After, we went for our honeymoon for 2 weeks and then left GH separately to our countries of residence. It’s been 2 years since then, we have not met physically again. We only communicate on the internet.

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My husband is such a kind and hard working person. In fact, he is a good person every woman will dream to have but I’m tired now. We dated for 3 years and been married for 2 years, which makes it five years of being together but we’ve had sex for just 2 weeks.

I’m from a good home and don’t want to cheat on him but I’m really tired of being lonely. I really need a man who will make me feel like I’m a woman. I’m such a beautiful young lady and only 27 years. I really want to enjoy life as well.

We will be together but not now (unless we finish with our papers) and the way I’m seeing things because of this pandemic, we might get together somewhere 2022 or 2023. My worry is I can’t control my feelings anymore and I am scared of cheating on my husband.

He is such a good person and he doesn’t deserve this from me. What if i cheat on him and I get pregnant too? We don’t do abortion in my family now. I don’t know what to do. I am tired of being lonely. Please your fans should help me. I don’t know what to do. I even sometimes ask myself whether I’m married or still single. I’m tired of this no sex life.

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Written by Abena Magis

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  1. My advice to you is if you can’t control the feeling any longer there are two things you should do;
    1.devorse him and marry someone close to you who can satisfy you, thinking aloud,are you saying all this five years he has had sex only two weeks?or
    2.get a sex toy to help you when the feeling is too much

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