DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Please post this as anonymous for me. I’ve been dating my guy for over two years now. He’s 32 whiles I’m 28. Before meeting me, he had a child with a lady and performed the Knocking rites but it didn’t work out between them. He decided to opt out but the lady wasn’t willing to let him go. She demanded that she’ll only let him go if she settles him with 10,000 Ghana cedis
I know that he can’t afford that now so once in a while, this lady will come to his house to fight him and me as well.
That’s not my problem now. My problem is that I’m pregnant for him and but his family is saying that until he settles his baby mama, we can’t get married. My dad is a pastor and wants me to do the right by getting married. Another problem too is that, unfortunately my dad is currently very sick. Breaking such a news like this to him will kill him completely and I don’t know what to do.
I wanted to abort it to avoid any disgrace but my man is saying that if I abort it then it means I don’t love him. He’s also threatened to inform my dad if I do it. I am so confused as to what to do. I need advice. Will be reading comments.